Addicted to Misery: When Being Happy Hurts
http://www.counselormagazine.com/feature-articles-mainmenu-63/59-mental-health/101-addicted-to-misery-when-being-happy-hurts With references from Anne Katherine's book which I am reading now. Although of significant personal relevance, the issue of the ideal that one should not need to live with such a state of mind is not without any objection that is not to be over-ruled on the basis of privacy of choice alongside the expectations of longsuffering in accommodation by others in one's circle of influence.